Why you afraid with your design?
Have you ever had a dead end while working on a design? stuck while working on a project? you don’t even feel that the design or work you have created is not in accordance with what should happen?
Congrats!! you’re stuck in a dead end (at least that’s my think about it). Why do you feel that way? surely in your mind really wonder why. This also happened to me when working on a website design to website maintenance.
I already understand that the task is being done, but I am confused about why the results are not satisfactory, even though the results do not match what the client needs. Calm down you are not alone, everyone even myself have experienced it but the question now is how to overcome it? No, my friend, that’s not the right question, at least that’s not what should be considered first.
You have to start understanding how your brain works, how your emotions work. Your emotions or your feelings are very important. Why is it important? Because emotions drive everything a choice, emotions also give confidence and insecurity. At least you have understood this beforehand. OK, let’s move on to the next question section.
Begin to accept what bad happens (self affirmations).
Acceptance is very important to begin with. It’s for the sake of lowering our emotional sense that sometimes the ego says “I should be like this, I should be able to do that”. But it failed, right? Yes!, Accept everything that you can’t do that at least for now! Tell yourself right now “I see I can’t!! At least now!! So what!!??”. Okay, congratulations, you have entered a phase where you can reduce your emotional & ego feelings by accepting yourself as you are.
You just have to enter the stage of how to overcome the deadlock?. Without realizing it, you have learned it after reading until this writing. That is, you accept that you are less likely to do that thing and start to try and try again to do the same thing. It’s not that you really don’t understand what you’re doing, but you’re just not used to it, so you feel like it doesn’t really match what you expected. The answer is only one, namely “Feeling”. It’s like you learning in theory from the teacher but don’t try it directly & do repetitions until you master it. So far, you have started to understand, right?
That’s my experience & that’s also my solution when getting stuck on it. maybe this doesn’t help you, maybe it helps you. But I disclaimer again. This is my opinion, now it’s your job to find out again with small experiments to your research on the internet.
I'm Eka Laksmana, a website developer & this story is an experience that I really want to share with those of you who are struggling to solve your work problems. I don't teach you how to solve this technically, if you need it, please look for it on the youtube channel that already provides various types of training.
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